"Than you for showing me I am not a failure. I owe you
a great deal of gratitude." - J.W - Mansfield, Texas
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The Emotional Impact of Bankruptcy
Bankruptcy is a scary thought. It's normal to experience a wide range of
intense emotions when considering bankruptcy as an option.
BEFORE A BANKRUPTCY you may
be feeling:
- Shame that you've gotten into a position where bankruptcy
is a possibility.
- Fear that others will find out about your bankruptcy and
judge you harshly.
- Intimidated about going to see a lawyer.
- Afraid that even learning about bankruptcy is proof that
you're a failure.
- Terrified that you'll never get credit or a new house or
car ever again.
- A loss of self-worth, confidence, and even depression.
The first thing you should realize is that filing for
bankruptcy doesn't make you a failure. Smart people know we all make
mistakes, and sometimes we must ask for help in order to correct those
mistakes. Most people declaring bankruptcy aren't financially
irresponsible. In fact, bankruptcies are almost always the result of
events outside of our control. Losing or a job or getting sick
weren't something you chose to do. But now you have to find a way
to deal with their consequences.
We've represented many bankruptcy clients over the years and
we understand that coming to our office was something you never planned
on doing. We understand that this isn't just a financially
difficult period for you, but an emotionally difficult one as well.
Some "bankruptcy-mill" law firms push people through the
bankruptcy process like they were cattle heading to the slaughter.
We take a different approach. We know that providing our clients
with compassion and understanding is just as important as providing them
with quality legal work. You will receive as much "hand holding" as you
need to feel comfortable. Above we listed some emotions you may
currently be feeling. Below is a list of emotions many clients
have told us they experienced after filing their case.
AFTER FILING BANKRUPTCY you
could experience:
- Relief that you're getting back on track financially and
emotionally.
- Peace of mind because you know collections calls will stop.
- Improved sleep because you know your money problems are
getting fixed.
- Improved relationships with your husband or wife because
stress levels are lower.
- More family time with your kids because you spend less time
dealing with money issues.
- As your knowledge about bankruptcy increases, your fear of
bankruptcy decreases.
- Renewed hope that you'll be able to send your kids to
college.
- A renewed sense of optimism.
- You know you'll use this second chance to do great
things with your life.
The benefits of bankruptcy extend far beyond wiping out your
debt. One of the most satisfying parts of being a bankruptcy
attorney is seeing clients begin to smile again once they realize that
there is a light at the end of the tunnel. I can help you in your
journey toward that light, but only YOU
have the ability to take the first step.
